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I feel/noticed that i am having problems with my throat chakra/communication and i can see why.

When we go to dinner at my family and when we finish i always say thank you for the food it was delicious which it was, then i got told but you never tell the truth cause i always say that. I just cant see someone saying thank you your food was horrible or maybe its just me and see why i could have throat chakra issues.

Like last night, my cousins wife wanted me to taste this special whiskey and said its good huh and i just reacted without thinking and said:  yes i liked it but i hated it as i don't drink whiskey and the taste was awful. 

So i can see why i have throat chakra problems just cant get over myself to tell someone in there face the food is horrible. Even if i just say thank you they still ask me how was it and then i say a little white lie.

 

 

 

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My throat chakra seems to be a strong point for me. All i can do is attempt to understand why to maybe give some kinda help. I have found there is no reason to judge myself of weather this is the right or wrong way to communicate. The idea that there is, is the problem.  

 

BUT I enjoy being honest and think it does help. So i go with honesty. But if i dont,  i remember its the idea of having to be like this. Or like that. That is the bigger problem. The biggest problem is the concern of what somebody thinks of me. Sure i wish people to like me. But i wish to be me first. Everything else second. And people generally like authenticity anyways. Beyond other things typically.

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Do some research on assertiveness too might help Anthony , often we tend to hold back if we haven't cleared anger issues ,most children are told when they are angry ,stop that etc and they don't get full expression ,this energy needs to be released properly ,its not that you were angry at your cousins wife ,but then perhaps you may have been too ,because if you don't like whiskey in the 1st place then the more appropriate response may have been ,No Thankyou I don't like whiskey but thanks anyway..all guesses here but also ive learnt how valuable assertiveness has been in my life , on the lighter side loosening it up with some singing ,chanting and praising the lord, this helps too, it can be a little scary to be assertive at first but the more you do it the better you will get at it,turquoise coloured crystals on the throat may help too :D 

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Thanks for all your replies.

I have heard the saying be yourself allot when i was younger but did not understand what it meant until this year. Me saying  the whiskey was nice when its not, is me not being myself and tbh i don't like it at all. I want to be myself!!! Something to work on in the future. 

Earthlove you right i should of said no i don't like whiskey in the first place and there would be no problems. :) Will def research assertiveness thank you. Have tried turquoise maybe give it a go again. Also when doing the Presence process, i thought i would have more fear stuff coming up but anger was the emotion that stuck out it's ugly head more than others so it could be a problem too. 

Running i also like telling the truth it's just when i get myself in trouble, i start telling little white lie's and i guess telling these lie's to go with the flow but i see it's wrong but i just can't help myself.

Yes Karen you right too :) i always say thank you but if the food is not good, i cant say is not good and  they always ask.

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Saying thank you is always the right thing to do when someone does something for you or shares something. Omit any other narrative related to the event, and you are in the clear.

 

Much love :)

:)... spot on!!! 

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So true Karen i guess it's okay but tough for me.

Like you say if it hurt me in the long run it should be best to tell the truth.

Thank you :)

More love 

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Anthony,

I think in your case, I feel you have gotten into the habit of saying "it's good", almost mindlessly... 

Becoming aware of what you say.. mindfulness of the words you want to use to express ... so that your inside and outside is in sync ... is what will help. It takes time... but just stop before you reply and at first just become aware of the words that come out and/or pick the words that are in sync with your inner feelings... it's possible to speak your truth without being hurtful...   
And if someone is hurt by your words... then there is something in them that they need to look into...
If their reaction hurts you... then that is something you need to look into for yourself... 

:wub:

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Thanks  Mahasweta

You right it's a habit of saying before i really even think what the answer to the question is. I also thought that maybe i should take a sec or two and then answer. Going to be difficult at first to learn to take that sec but it will just become easier with practice. :)

Good advice thank you.

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i seem to have a different problem with my throat chakra, i've broken my habit of telling lying, and i try my best to tell the truth, regardless of how the person im telling the truth to feels about my truth.

i had a dear friend of mine help me realize that i tell lies.

one of the problems i still have is i pretend to listen to someone when they are telling me something, i don't really understand cuz its so complicated but i just say mmhm, i dont know how to tell them i dont understand,

the main problem i have with my throat chakra is i can't seem to express my self, im very untalkative, 

whenever i smoke weed i think my throat chakra gets opened up and i can talk and talk and talk and express my very nice thoughts,

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On 9/17/2016 at 2:29 PM, mindtooloud said:

i seem to have a different problem with my throat chakra, i've broken my habit of telling lying, and i try my best to tell the truth, regardless of how the person im telling the truth to feels about my truth.

i had a dear friend of mine help me realize that i tell lies.

one of the problems i still have is i pretend to listen to someone when they are telling me something, i don't really understand cuz its so complicated but i just say mmhm, i dont know how to tell them i dont understand,

the main problem i have with my throat chakra is i can't seem to express my self, im very untalkative, 

whenever i smoke weed i think my throat chakra gets opened up and i can talk and talk and talk and express my very nice thoughts,

Im pretty sure every guy on the planet would have a weak throat chakra if it happens from pretending to listen. Lol

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